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Reply #46
Hey, we're family, and generally prove it one way or another all the time. We've all said it, this forum is the best one I've ever seen, closer than any other I've been apart of bar none. You have friends here when you need them, and I'm easy to find if you need anything.
'88 Sport--T-5,MGW shifter,Trick Flow R intake,Ed Curtis cam,Trick Flow heads,Scorpion rockers,75mm Accufab t-body,3G,mini starter,Taurus fan,BBK long tube headers,O/R H-Pipe, Flowamaster Super 44's, deep and deeper Cobra R wheels, Mass Air and 24's,8.8 with 3.73's,140 mph speedo,Mach 1 chin spoiler,SN-95 springs,CHE control arms,aluminum drive shaft and a lot more..


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Reply #48
what vinnie said.. the fox bird/cat community is more like a family than a bunch of guys talking about cars and starting bs.. they say the grass is always greener on the other side.. this site IS the other side ;)
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3- 87 TC's / 1 really mean 83 Capri RS / 94 Sonoma SAS Project on 37x12.50 TSL Radials / 88 S10 that's LITERALLY cut to pieces / 84 F150 SAS, 351M, 39.5 TSL's / 85 Toyota regular cab, 22R 5spd, 3/4" drop, my little junkyard save/daily driver

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Reply #49
Yes, but the other side of "WHAT"? Hmmmmm.................
'88 Sport--T-5,MGW shifter,Trick Flow R intake,Ed Curtis cam,Trick Flow heads,Scorpion rockers,75mm Accufab t-body,3G,mini starter,Taurus fan,BBK long tube headers,O/R H-Pipe, Flowamaster Super 44's, deep and deeper Cobra R wheels, Mass Air and 24's,8.8 with 3.73's,140 mph speedo,Mach 1 chin spoiler,SN-95 springs,CHE control arms,aluminum drive shaft and a lot more..

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Reply #50
Vinnie said it right Graham. I had to keep positive through all the BS I put up with after breaking up with my kids' mother. Since then it's been nothing but a constant battle. Notice how the Cougar all of a sudden has wheels, exhaust and a hood? How I have a T-Bird now with alot of spare parts? I play video games, music and work on my cars to keep me busy. Plus I have my two boys to keep me running around too, but I had to keep myself busy and doing stuff I loved for anything to get better. I've even been in relationships since, even though I was screwed over it reassured me that there are more women out there. Best thing to do is worry about you, the kids, and making sure those two things have the best they can and are happy. Things fall in place after that. I learned that the hard way.

Quote from: Haystack;370594
I started to eat so much better after I moved back in with my family. In two months I gained about 35 pounds. At 6'5", there is no way I could be healthy at 165lbs. You need to remove yourself from the situation and do what is right for you. As far as the kids go, buy diapers, buy clothes, but do not give out any money.

 
I eat constantly, I'm 6'4" at 155lbs. I have an extremely fast metabolism.
"Real cars dont power the front wheels, they lift them"
[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
1984 Mercury Cougar GS 5.0:cougarsmily: BBK Equal Length Shorties, BBK O/R X-Pipe, Magnaflow Magnapacks, Mustang GT Stainless Tailpipes, 18" Magnaflow Rolled Edge Tips. Turbo Coupe Hood, Mach 1 Chin Spoiler. 17"x9" Cobra R's, Falken Ziex 255/50s, and 245/45s.
1984 Ford Thunderbird 3.8L "Drag Queen"
2009 Dodge Ram 1500 Lone Star Edition 5.7L Hemi 400hp, lex DOD14M Magnaflow retro-fit ler kit

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Reply #51
When I was 19 I weighed 245 and felt pretty good about myself. I am thinking about joining a gym.
Quote from: jcassity
I honestly dont think you could exceed the cost of a new car buy installing new *stock* parts everywhere in your coug our tbird. Its just plain impossible. You could revamp the entire drivetrain/engine/suspenstion and still come out ahead.
Hooligans! 
1988 Crown Vic wagon. 120K California car. Wifes grocery getter. (junked)
1987 Ford Thunderbird LX. 5.0. s.o., sn-95 t-5 and an f-150 clutch. Driven daily and going strong.
1986 cougar.
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Reply #52
Nathan, you make me very proud.  she came in today to get the kids and started looking around and rambling off things that she thinks she should be able to take.  I looked at her told her she isnt taking anything and said that I am only going to discuss the kids with her and that it was her choice to walk out on our family.

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Reply #53
Quote from: 88turbo;370628
Nathan, you make me very proud.  she came in today to get the kids and started looking around and rambling off things that she thinks she should be able to take.  I looked at her told her she isnt taking anything and said that I am only going to discuss the kids with her and that it was her choice to walk out on our family.

 
Exactly! Way to go, man. Be nice, but not weak.

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Reply #54
Quote from: vinnietbird;370621
Yes, but the other side of "WHAT"? Hmmmmm.................

the FoMoCo hill i suppose lol

stay strong graham, don't let her take a thing.. she walked out and gave up her rights to anything in the house. until a judge or cop tells you otherwise.. lol
ShadowMSC.com < < Still Under Construction

R.I.P. 'Zump' 8/29/86 - 11/11/11
3- 87 TC's / 1 really mean 83 Capri RS / 94 Sonoma SAS Project on 37x12.50 TSL Radials / 88 S10 that's LITERALLY cut to pieces / 84 F150 SAS, 351M, 39.5 TSL's / 85 Toyota regular cab, 22R 5spd, 3/4" drop, my little junkyard save/daily driver

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Reply #55
Good for you Graham! When my second wife came to get her stuff I agreed to let her have a few things but the main stuff that she took was only what she came with. Which wasn't much. Stick to it until you're ordered to do differently.

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Reply #56
Say what you mean.....

Mean what you say.....

But don't say anything mean.
'88 Sport--T-5,MGW shifter,Trick Flow R intake,Ed Curtis cam,Trick Flow heads,Scorpion rockers,75mm Accufab t-body,3G,mini starter,Taurus fan,BBK long tube headers,O/R H-Pipe, Flowamaster Super 44's, deep and deeper Cobra R wheels, Mass Air and 24's,8.8 with 3.73's,140 mph speedo,Mach 1 chin spoiler,SN-95 springs,CHE control arms,aluminum drive shaft and a lot more..

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Reply #57
today went down bad also.  she called the cops and made a report that I did some things and they refused to let me have my girls. they meaning the ex and her family...  I did get through to legal aide and I have a claim started with them.  Also I have been working on becoming closer to the lord and making peace with him :)

 

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Reply #58
One day at a time. Perhaps you and her need to sit and talk and make plans. If it means giving up a few things, and it helps keep things sociable, then so be it. It's just stuff. You two may need a middle person. Legal aide is a smart move to protect yourself,though. If she's leaving, and you're staying, then all you really need to concern yourself with are the kids.  sad stuff all around, and the kids suffer more than people realize. They shouldn't be used as leverage, but a=often are. Stay strong, and get with legal aide  to get your stuff started.
'88 Sport--T-5,MGW shifter,Trick Flow R intake,Ed Curtis cam,Trick Flow heads,Scorpion rockers,75mm Accufab t-body,3G,mini starter,Taurus fan,BBK long tube headers,O/R H-Pipe, Flowamaster Super 44's, deep and deeper Cobra R wheels, Mass Air and 24's,8.8 with 3.73's,140 mph speedo,Mach 1 chin spoiler,SN-95 springs,CHE control arms,aluminum drive shaft and a lot more..

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Reply #59
my buddy brian went through this.. his ex accused him of molesting and beating his kids.. luckily his son is old enough to speak in court and he told the judge his mother was 'a hypocritical, bond faced lying puppies.' women pull this.. .. all the time and a lot of them get away with it.. the justice system is bullspit anymore, they always believe everything a women says unless the guy in question has hard evidence against it
ShadowMSC.com < < Still Under Construction

R.I.P. 'Zump' 8/29/86 - 11/11/11
3- 87 TC's / 1 really mean 83 Capri RS / 94 Sonoma SAS Project on 37x12.50 TSL Radials / 88 S10 that's LITERALLY cut to pieces / 84 F150 SAS, 351M, 39.5 TSL's / 85 Toyota regular cab, 22R 5spd, 3/4" drop, my little junkyard save/daily driver