I'm out for a while
Reply #58 –
One day at a time. Perhaps you and her need to sit and talk and make plans. If it means giving up a few things, and it helps keep things sociable, then so be it. It's just stuff. You two may need a middle person. Legal aide is a smart move to protect yourself,though. If she's leaving, and you're staying, then all you really need to concern yourself with are the kids. sad stuff all around, and the kids suffer more than people realize. They shouldn't be used as leverage, but a=often are. Stay strong, and get with legal aide to get your stuff started.