I need some support

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I need some support

November 04, 2005, 06:05:32 PM

what are the odds of losing a good friend and your uncle in the same week for the same reason? joel was killed in a car accident sunday night and today when I got home from his funeral dad told me that my uncle was killed in a car accident this morning. what a messed up week :( not to mention all of the friends I have lost in the past maybe 10 or more so I'm taking this pretty hard.

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Reply #1 – November 04, 2005, 06:20:48 PM

Sorry to hear that. You'll be okay though. It just takes time.

11 years ago I lost both of my grandfathers about a week and a half apart. One right before Christmas and the other only a couple days after. Both passed from health/ natural causes. I can't imagine your case though. It's tragic but keep yourself together and you'll be okay.

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Reply #2 – November 04, 2005, 06:24:09 PM

I'm trying but its pretty hard right now, today wasnt a good day to start out with having to go to a friends funeral.

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Reply #3 – November 04, 2005, 06:46:37 PM

how i delt with one of my friends getting killed is i just cryed in my fathers arms. that helped me out alot. plus it was the first person close to me that i had lost like that. But in time you will make it. But do this remember the good times. Try not to dwell on all bad times remember there lives in good times. Trust me you will be fine in due time. If you have someone you are really close to try and talk to them about how you are feeling right now. Because a good support system will do wonders.

Sorry for your loss:sorry:

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Reply #4 – November 04, 2005, 06:54:27 PM

Be Strong Brother...

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Reply #5 – November 05, 2005, 06:22:54 PM

as i always say im glad to see how we all care about each other .be easy bro ...all that is need'ed is time ...

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Reply #6 – November 05, 2005, 06:32:30 PM

thank you all for the support.

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Reply #7 – November 05, 2005, 06:36:28 PM

i lost a close friend back in near the end of grade seven...it was really hard to even accept that she was gone, her older sister picked her up from school, she left like 10 min early i don't know why..but she did, i didn't even get to say bye and didn't even notice her leave..when they where going around a long sweeper turn there right front tire blew due to the fact of poor maintence of the vehicle (it was a Jeep durango 89-90) the vehicle rolled over 3 times, she was knocked out then flew out the window and was crushed by the jeep rolling over, it stopped at the edge of a fence that led to a farmers field... When i got the phone call about 1 hour after she died i just didn't think it actually happened, i thoughti would wake up next morning and see her there....

ever since then i have put on my seatbelt and always will, life can be bitch but sooner or later youve got to move on...

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Reply #8 – November 05, 2005, 11:45:24 PM

Sorry for your losses thats a bad deal. I know its hard now, but time will heal the most of your greif. I know, because at 55 I've lost a lot of close relatives, old school mates, etc and not all have been natural causes.

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Reply #9 – November 05, 2005, 11:58:03 PM

I've lost relatives and freinds to both natural and accidental causes. The thing that I most recomend to you is don't try to be a tough guy. I know that most guys feal they have to act tough but keeping those feelings inside only makes it worse. Talk to someone close to you as said already. But I guess you already did that didn't you. :)

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Reply #10 – November 06, 2005, 01:07:43 AM

you guys are pretty close thats why I opened up and let you know what was going on. I knew that you all would care :)

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Reply #11 – November 06, 2005, 09:29:48 PM

Yes, I know just how ya feel, my brother died last Monday night in a rollover in an S-10 Blazer...
This kinda shiznit can and does happen, so buckle up...
catch y'all later...

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Reply #12 – November 06, 2005, 09:36:30 PM

I'm sorry to hear that bud, I guess we are going through the same thing at the same time.

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Reply #13 – November 06, 2005, 10:23:24 PM

yeah, I've had a few rough moments, but all in all, I can deal with it...
Just gotta be strong, and always keep 'em in your heart...

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Reply #14 – November 06, 2005, 11:58:23 PM

when I just talked to you I didnt know that your week was that bad. I was in Wichita Saturday Night and saw some people from Kingman. Did you happen to go to the Concordia/Andale game? We got our asses handed to us.