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Re: Dating

Reply #30 – August 23, 2005, 10:45:38 PM

Getting turned down seems to happen alot now adays. Im glad im only starting my senior year of high school. Time to party it up. Screw all of this getting to know them shiznit, cuz next year im leaving the state for uti. I dont try to play them, i am completely honest, but somehow it always seems like i do. Oh well all i know is stay away from the sluts. If you dont, you will meet a little gnome named syphyllus and he will lead you down a path of pain and despair and at the end of that path are 2 signs, insanity and death. I have learned alot in my 17 years, believe it or not. Am i the youngest person one HERE?

Re: Dating

Reply #31 – August 24, 2005, 12:22:57 AM

Quote from: jkirchman

And you think that you telling her you aren't interested is keeping her from having those thoughts? Yeah right. There ain't a woman alive that doesn't think about that stuff regardless of what their boyfriend tells them.

the difference is the fact that she wont get her hopes up

Re: Dating

Reply #32 – August 24, 2005, 12:54:00 AM

Ok, since there's all this relationship/dating/marriage talk going on... am I crazy for seriously thinking about marriage with my current girlfriend? Ash and I have been together for 3 years exactly today. We've talked about marriage quite a bit, both agreed on a simple, maybe Vegas wedding, sort of a surprise thing. Come back from a vegas vacation... "We got married!" Am I crazy? I'm 22... nearly done with school. She's got a pretty good job working at a photography firm. She's 20. Am I nuts?

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Reply #33 – August 24, 2005, 01:10:49 AM

I don't think you're nuts. You are nuts if there is any doubt between you two of your love and commitment towards eachother.

My cousin just turned 21 and he is getting married in a couple weeks. He just bought a house that he and his bride-to-be are fixing up together. She's committed to him and he's committed to her. It's a match made in heaven.

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Reply #34 – August 24, 2005, 10:20:32 AM

Nah Brian you aren't crazy. But I bet your relationship changes after you get married. Marriage does something that I can't really explain. There aren't very many other things you can do that will (or are supposed) to commit you to something for the rest of your life.

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the difference is the fact that she wont get her hopes up

The longer you two are together, the more she will get her hopes up. Regardless of what you tell her.

Re: Dating

Reply #35 – August 24, 2005, 10:20:44 AM

Quote from: Ifixyawata

Ok, since there's all this relationship/dating/marriage talk going on... am I crazy for seriously thinking about marriage with my current girlfriend? Ash and I have been together for 3 years exactly today. We've talked about marriage quite a bit, both agreed on a simple, maybe Vegas wedding, sort of a surprise thing. Come back from a vegas vacation... "We got married!" Am I crazy? I'm 22... nearly done with school. She's got a pretty good job working at a photography firm. She's 20. Am I nuts?

Not at all, man. :) Ange and I were talking marriage after about a year, and after a year and a half, she had a ring on her finger. It took another three+ years to get married though. Engaged by 21, married at 25. :)

My advice to you is see if you two can live together before tieing the knot. They say the first year of marriage is the hardest. I think that's the case because you actually have to live in the same house with them. Our first year married was smooth sailing, but our first year living together was rocky, to say the least.

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Reply #36 – August 24, 2005, 01:30:24 PM

Well this might be off the current topic a little bit but to answer the original question I'm going to give ya a few guidlines for meeting women.

1. When you want to meet women you have to carry youself a certain way ie comb your hair and don't look like a slob. Put a little effort into the way you look. Women think that if you atleast try to look nice that you aren't a total slob (I am

but they don't know it). When you walk into a room try to stand as tall as you can so you look like you are confident and have pride in yourself.

2. Figure out who you want to talk to. A good rule of thumb is that if the girl has a ring on her right hand she's avaliable. If it's on her left hand RUN. Left hand rings usually mean a boyfriend or even marriage. The tricky part is when they don't have any rings. They could still have a boyfriend but don't feel like wearing jewlry that day or they might not have a boyfriend. It's up to you to determine if you want to talk to them or not.

3. The easiest way to start a conversation is to ask them about a particular item that they are wearing or that they have near them. Ask them about the ring on their right index finger for example. It starts up a conversation and it also allows you to find out discreatly if they have a boyfriend or not. Say something to the effect of "I noticed that the ring you are wearing spells out something do you mind if I ask what it says" or something similar to that.

4. The most important thing is to be yourself. If you start off by telling a lie you'll have to make up other lies to cover it. Pretty soon you won't be able to tell what is a lie and what isn't anymore and you'll just end up getting youself into more trouble.

I'm 20 but usuong these guidlines I have been able to meet quite a few girls. Not all of them have become girl friends. Some have become friends and some just went away beacuse of things the girl did (I started the "Are women nuts" thread, read it for future refference). As you talk to more girls you'll become more confident and eventually you'll meet someone. For instance right now I'm working on a set of single hot twins

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:ies: and I hope to eventually have a shot at going out with one or both of them. If nothing happens oh well. If things don't go your way with a girl then just pick yourself up and start over. There are plenty of single girls out there so just keep trying.