I have two things I've come to notice about women that I find odd. Ok there are more than two things but this is just a start.;)
1. Why is it when you're single you have to go and search for women. You have to go talk to them, be nice, flirt, and then get a phone number. On the other hand if you're dating someone women fall all over you. They flirt with you and give you their phone number. Why? Do men smell different to women when we're dating someone vs. when we're single? How can they tell? :dunno:
2. Why is it that when I'm driving my Buick I get no attention but the minute I go out in the T-bird I have girls flirting with me at traffic lights? I look the same no mater what I'm driving. I swear women are attracted to nice cars. Am I right?
Well those are my two observations about women. If you guys have any more feel free to add some or answer mine. This can only get dumber/more insane as more things are added:giggle:
3. How they always want something untill you go and get it for them
You gotta go up to them, and be a mild dick. Works for me.
Well I get noticed in both of my cars. A nice old Cougar, and a Bright-ass Yellow SUV. Women are difficult and think we should bow down to them, that is why.
They remember EVERYTHING, down to the time of day! it drives me nuts! I cant remember driving to work this morning....
Why is it that they are super nice to you, flirty and then start talking about how wonderful their boyfriends are? If they're trying to make me jealous, they aren't. They are only g me off. I swear not one single girl exists in college.:mad:
By the way, I always got attention in my cars. The cougar is nice and I got a lot of attention with it. The Tib has also given me a good bit of attention and some nice stare downs in traffic. The Tib is a chick magnet.:D
However, the Cougar seems to attract more guys than women.:rolleyes:
The only vehicles around here that seem to get attention from girls are riced-out pos's or blinged-out anything. Otherwise they could care less.
Uh Oh... thats a sign of what car to drive, and when. Guys like v8s. Girls like flashy . They want to be impressed. There are single girls in college, but they are hard to find. Maybe they are pushed away by the guys who stare at your Cougar?;) Jk. I wish I had your car, its nice.
LOL, thanks.
Usually when I get attention from a girl when I'm in the Cougar, they are giving me dirty looks for making too much noise and setting off car alarms in the parking garage.
Hard to find is right... near impossible is more like it...
Yeah, that sucks
I had a girl come up to me in the Vic' on day and tell her about how her husband is a pr!ck and I had to tell her I'm not a cop
Single college girls want money. College guys don't have money. Single college girls date married men in their 30's. Single college girls all think their married boyfriend is single.....
Oh that's so true. Single blond college girls are so dumb :rollin:
Oh I know that's what I do. I'm not saying I can't get anyone (I have a girlfriend right now) I'm asking why they flirt with you and give you their phone numer when you're in a relationship. Why they do it then and not when you're single I don't know.
They're there but they are all hiding. I swear some of them just say they are dating guys so they don't look like they are losers.
That could be true. Apparently they don't realize they aren't helping themselves any by playing that charade.
That could be true. Apparently they don't realize they aren't helping themselves any by playing that charade. Especially when I'm hitting on them. Oh well...
amen to that...... but, being old, i've noticed that women these days have lowered their standards A LOT or maybe my perspective is just skewed...... i agree with the mild prick comment, it seems that the more you act like a badass conceited prick, the more they want to be with you..... i mean, when i was in school, the "bad seed" guys where what the girls creamed for, but at least back then they were attractive, these days the "bad seeds" are just downright nasty, ugly wannabe thugs..... it seems as if the clean cut "good guy" is destined for a lonely life of abusing his right hand these days.........
but that's just my opinion ;)... i could be wrong... i guess 13 years of marriage and 3 kids'll do that to you :locked: :deal: :nono:
Single collage girls exists, they are all hiding in the library. :D
Its all in how you manipulate there minds... Me right now I'm working on this HOT dark skinned mama ..... and its working... well....
I think it may have to do with your general attitude. You couldn't care less about picking up a girl when you're with someone. Maybe they can sense that you don't really care, making you all the more desireable. It's weird how backwards women can be.
Here's an observation I've made recently. Obviosly this doesn't apply for EVERYONE, but a good majority. Women seem to like complete jerks and live for the abuse
initially until they get tired of it, their self esteem is in the toilet and the relationship ends. Eventually they end up with a "nice guy" who makes them feel better about themselves and suddenly they don't need the nice guy anymore and find another jerk. Said "nice guy" becomes bitter over being used as nothing more than a self esteem filling station and ends up a jerk, and we're back at the beginning. There is a delicate balance between asshole and sweetheart and she'll keep you jumping from one foot to the other. Women are a lot of trouble, but also a lot of fun ;)
I DATED THIS F#&$IN CRRAZY b%&#* ( THATS THE ONLY WAY TO EXPAIN HER) she hated when chicks flirted with me. it was pretty funny and when i broke up with here i swear random girls flirting with me was over! it just started again a few months ago, but the prick thing work good. and to add to the remember everything, they act like you remember nothing and try to pull stuff over on you. doesnt work on me i hate that
woman girls ladies whatever are confusing and they like it that way so the can have drama its as simple as that.
and the no single college chick, try having no single hot chick at your high school, i have to outsource for my dates WTF! there are plenty of single girls but i guess im shallow and i like it that way
Nothing wrong with knowing what you want.
You're unfortunately correct there, my friend. I just so happen to be a clean cut, smart, all around nice guy that gets hung out to dry all the time. I swear I have been naturally sprayed down with chick repellant or something while all the girls date the school jerk offs and don't realize they're headed into a life of poverty and abuse (hate to say it, but it's true almost all the time with the type of guys they date). I keep telling myself that they'll get smarter as they grow up, but that hasnt happened yet :bs: .
As for observations, I know that some women change their minds ALL THE TIME. One second they ask you to do one thing, then right as you finish that, they ask for the complete opposite (this rule applies to many different things). ARGH
Im a clean cut, smart guy, but i come off as an ass, but do have a soft side. Apparantly thats what girls like. An ex of mine was attracted to me because i was an ass, and i ended up kicking her to the curb because she was a nut case.
I had an ex of mine, the first real relationship i was in. I treated her like gold, did everything i could to make her happy, made many sacrafices, all kinds of stupid shiznit. Her and I broke up, and months later, she kept coming to me crying about how her boyfriend called her all these names, insulted her, made her feel like shiznit, and my response was "dump him", i get a call 2 weeks later, theyre back together, then another 2 weeks later, i get the crying call again. That went on for a bit over a year. She called me a few months after that relationship saying how she misses the abusive **** and wants him back and all this. I hung up.
Honestly I go by a girls age. anyone under 21 is off limits... they are still stupid....
21-probably 26 and they are usually a good woman.. she has had her fun.. she has had some rough times.... and now she is looking for that clean cut good guy.
Now I've dabbled a bit with the 27 up.... take note so far has been in regards to myself... a 21 year old...... if she is 27 and up she is crazy in a whole different way...
Current girl is 24 almost 25.... she's ready for something different... no assholes ..... I fit that bill....
Kinda cool we look like an oreo standing beside each other! hahah..
Now like the english language they speak... there is an exception to every rule....
*off in thought* hmm new girlfriend speaks two languages... wonder what that means?
See, I too am a clean cut guy whose smart and sweet. I start off sweet and kind and when she opens up and we get to know eachother a bit, I'll be a bit of an ass here and there. I like to test the water a bit before diving in. While it seems to work and I think I'm getting somewhere, I hear 'my boyfriend this my boyfriend that'.
The kicker was the girl I took to senior prom. We got along so well and we had some things we did together in school and so on but when I wanted to start dating her, she turned me down. After graduation, she sent me a card about how I was the sweetest guy she knew and how special the things we did were and she would never forget me. What's wrong with this picture?
I'm with Claude on this. I need to find myself a woman a little older than me. I found that most girls my age and a little younger are completely immature and have no idea what they want out of life. I personally don't want to go through 3 girlfriends in a year or something rediculous like that and I'm tired of all the drama surrounding every relationship of those my age. This 'I love you, I hate you, I love you' is annoying.
1- They know your taken, they know it will improve thier self cofidence that you "could have been" stolen. Its just that simple and they mostly do it to send a message amongst thier women peers. Its just like when they dress up and go out, its about 20% to please you but the other 80% is to make darn sure other chicks see how good they look. Its a territory thing, women are very territorial.
2-They see how good they would look in your car. But.... they mostly see someone who they can manage to tempt even though they have no serious intentions. Your car says you must like a certain lifestyle so they simply play with you, and you play back, no harm/no foul.
What the hell are you talking about with the oreo thing?!
and i bet youll find out what makes her talk in her second language pretty quick!;) :tg: :headbang:
It seems like you guys know exactly whats going on... so whats the problem?
We need a bad ass on the outside and a sweet heart on the inside...dont do everything your girl wants, she'll have no respect for you, and she'll get bord! And you'll look stupid to your friends :)
Its all about the biggest, baddest and best! its instinct...My B/F drives a 05 f150 all done up lowered on 22s! I wont leave that truck..I look good in it!
now that we have a inform on the inside why the hell do you ladies act like that!:bs:
no answer huh or is it just cause, never understud that. but now we know we are right, ha thats a first with em!
anymore tricks you got for us, we dont have mags that tell us how to find girls and what they want and what to do, ours contain pics of woman, cars anll thing to look at and make us happy
What you guys have to realise is, girls are insecure.
You also have to realise that when girls finally grow up, they no longer go for the 'bad boy' to stay with....they really want the nice guys, and it's even better if they have a hidden bad boy side.
Not that they want to be treated like , but they want the guy who is kind, and treats her well, but also knows how to have fun.
The bad boy image is 'cool' when you are young, but as you get older, it gets old too.
My ex husband was a bad boy....I figured he'd be cool and then outgrow it...well, he never did. He was a good guy, just not mature enough to handle the family life we had, he's 35 now and still isn't.
However, Roger is. He still likes to have fun, but when it comes down to it, he takes care of the family, he's a hard worker and a great dad. He treats me great, and ya know what? Even though I kind of miss the 'bad boy' stuff sometimes...I wouldn't trade the 'nice guy' for anything.
Sometimes you have to live and learn, and quite franklly, girls in college haven't lived long enough to learn.
Well I'm glad we got a couple ladies chiming in on here.
So I guess things are going to start looking up...
I'd just like to get into a steady relationship before I hit 25...3 1/2 years and counting...
thats exactly what i dont want but im young and you guys need to find a compainion soon or not its your call, steady-long term relationships with girls my age are just time bomb that you have to leave just before the bomb ticks its last tick. its all drama and i hate drama more than bitchin' so add those together and im gone, i know i cant run from bitchin' forever but i can now and will till im older
She is black, I am white...
Yeah try older women. I'm dating a 23 year old (she's 2 years older than me) and she is SO much more mature than girls my age. I say go for it:D
i dont know what kind of Oreos they sell where ever the hell your form but our oreos have two chocolate sides!:D :D lets see that one happen, twin sister:hick:
Bleh, I cant stand older women. I'm 21, My gf (first and hopefully only) is 18, We've been together for over a year and living together for almost a year and we have never gotten in to a fight and she doesnt bitch and moan. We have an agreement about BS and fighting and it works great. Girls my age are too serious about life in general or complete sluts so its hard to find anything decent.
Also I'm the clean cut, 'nice' guy.
I have no advice to give in this discussion. I am 26 years old. Will be 27 in a few weeks. My wife is 24 and her birthday is the day after mine. She was born in Ecuador and, like Claude's current love interest, speaks two languages.
I don't understand women. Probably never will. So I just sort of go with the flow and take things as I see them. Sometimes I'm right. Sometimes I'm wrong. But foreign women, in my humble opinion, make better long-term partners than American women for the most part. The only thing that bothers me about Hispanic women is their inability to be assertive. It's something I've been working on with my wife since we were married almost three years ago.
But, clueless as we guys may be, we still need women and they are definitely good to have around.
I've been around quite a few blocks in my time and have come to one conclusion: women are just a pain in the backside. You're better off spanking it and buying more cars. At least that way you won't get any diseases and when the car you off, you close the garage door and walk away.
Am I cynical? Naaahhhhhh.... ;)
I really have no good input on this subject...
*looks at paperwork for second divorce* :p
However, making generalizations about ANYONE, women included, can lead to just as many problems ;)
Eric might have the happiness thing down
money for cars+ cars+ self induced pleasure = happiness
dont know if that plan will work for everyone but i work for some even if it is just a short time period. im working on two months now and have been able to buy the stuff i want for my car.
woman plus men equal problems no matter what at some time or another that is the real answer to this whole thing.
ppsssst! Hate to tell ya, but women pretty much feel the same way about guys. LOL
I thought I would share something with you all that a friend shared with me after I got dumped by a really crazy, messed up in the head chick.
Ode to the Nice Guys
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This rant was written for the Wharton Undergraduate Journal
This is a tribute to the nice guys. The nice guys that finish last, that never become more than friends, that endure hours of whining and bitching about what assholes guys are, while disproving the very point. This is dedicated to those guys who always provide a shoulder to lean on but restrain themselves to tentative hugs, those guys who hold open doors and give reassuring pats on the back and sit patiently outside the changing room at department stores. This is in honor of the guys that obligingly reiterate how cute/beautiful/smart/funny/shagy their female friends are at the appropriate moment, because they know most girls need that litany of support. This is in honor of the guys with open minds, with laid-back attitudes, with honest concern. This is in honor of the guys who respect a girl’s every facet, from her privacy to her theology to her clothing style.
This is for the guys who escort their drunk, bewildered female friends back from parties and never take advantage once they’re at her door, for the guys who accompany girls to bars as buffers against the rest of the creepy male population, for the guys who know a girl is fishing for compliments but give them out anyway, for the guys who always play by the rules in a game where the rules favor cheaters, for the guys who are accredited as boyfriend material but somehow don’t end up being boyfriends, for all the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated, and unappreciated, for all the nice guys who are manipulated, misled, and unjustly abandoned, this is for you.
This is for that time she left 40 urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours painstakingly dissecting two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner. And even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it. This is for that time she interrupted the best killing spree you’d ever orchestrated in GTA3 to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world. And even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you paused the game for two hours and helped her concoct a counter-rumor to spread around the floor. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to a party where you knew nobody, the beer was awful, and she flirted shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” And even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due. And perhaps more disturbing, the nice guys don’t seem to get laid as often as they should. And I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed on campus and what I have learned from talking to friends at other schools and in the workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical, manipulative *****es. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks. Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete ass now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, inane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.
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Fu-zu Jen, SEAS/WH, 2003
that was long but so true
Lets face it guys and gals. To make sense of all this you'll have to be the nice guy when needed but then the jerk at times. But also you need to hang ou loosely so they don't feel like you are a control freak. I know it's hard to do you find a great chick/dude and you want to keep him/her. Most everthing is a trade off. If you go to the craft show with her she will do many things for you in return. So perk up your ears and pay close atttention and work the system. It is bound to work out for you sometime. Never underestimate the power of laughter. It has wroked for me. I'm just and average guy a little over weight and loosing hair and, I have a great woman. I've also been married for almost 12 years. Alll my friends ask me " Dude how do you find a woman like yours?" I tell them its all because I'm the man! LOL.
Wow, that discribes what I do to a "t".
Yes, I know that one needs to be an ass, as stated earlyer, but my phylospy is, I want someone who like me for me, not who I pretend to be.
So if I am destend to spend the rest of my life alone, and never tasting lifes pleasures so be it. But I will not sink to the ($#holes level and destroy another persons selfesteem.
I am not a chump either, if I get used to many times, I start saying no.
Yeah I know I have problems. But aleast I have money to spend on my vehicles, and I can see the results of my spending.
Daniel
I like hot chicks in the summertime. Thats all this divorced guy is going to say bout this topic
I fall in right about here:
"...the nice guys who are overlooked, underestimated..."
That's basically been my life story as of right now.
Funny thing is the girl I'm with now realizes this... She mentioned talking with her friend and realizing that I'm a nice guy... and she is ready for that in her life.
Girls don't want a "nice guy" till later in life. When they're in high school or college they want the ass hole flirty guy. They want a sense of mystery or adventure. Later on they want the nice guy to settle down with after they've grown tired of the a-hole guys. I used to be a nice guy but in high school I changed to an a-hole guy to get girls. It works. You have to be an a-hole flirt at first and then be a nice guy with her. It works and you'll pick up and keep girls if you do this:D