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Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 1BadBird on May 19, 2015, 07:33:32 PM
So first thing this morning I got an azzchewing and raked over the coals by my boss over the 50' Jag that we're working on. Everyday I don't know if I'm going to be dealing with Mr. Hyde or Dr Jeckle. Yesterday things were great so I must've had Dr. Jecklle, he was extremely excited about the way the flatside of the front fenders and doors were nearly perfectly flat and just a little work left on the hood. Today I had to deal with Mr. Hyde.......... I was told that everything was  and that I had pretty much wasted 3 weeks of time and accompanying materials. This started at 7am and lasted till about 10:30am when he left "to run some errands" but more than likely to get away from me.

Anyway, after I reprimed the hood, the flat part of the doors and fenders, I was cleaning the primer gun as usual and I got a text from my wife that she would be pulling up in front of my work shortly. I thought well she's an hour early for lunch but okay. That's when the finishing touch came. I had missed 3 calls from one of my sisters taking care of my mother, well my wife Brandi came out to tell me in person that my mother had passed away around 8:30 pacific time. As per her last wishes, there will be no service or memorial, just the cremation and burial next to my dad.  I don't know when I'll be back home or on here.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: vinnietbird on May 19, 2015, 07:51:58 PM
Holy . God bless you and your family. I hope you all find peace.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: V8Demon on May 19, 2015, 07:58:36 PM
My condolences.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: Haystack on May 19, 2015, 07:59:58 PM
Wish ya the best, let us know if there is anything we can do for you.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: TurboCoupe50 on May 19, 2015, 08:18:44 PM
My condolences...
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: BornInAFord on May 19, 2015, 08:26:01 PM
Sorry to hear.  You have my sympathy (boss) and condolences.  I know you'll pull through, but wow, it sounds rough.  May you find peace and comfort for your family in your loss.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: Beau on May 19, 2015, 09:24:18 PM
Condolences to you and your family.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: My10-80 on May 19, 2015, 09:58:12 PM
My sympathies to you and your family.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: Loaded87IROC on May 19, 2015, 11:24:22 PM
Sorry to hear that.  :(
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 1BadBird on May 20, 2015, 07:53:56 AM
Thank you all for the condolences and prayers. I'm unable to go to Washington for the burial. I'm ok with that. I know that my mother is in a peaceful place with my father and my neice watching over me and my family. When I'm able to, I will make the trip to visit their grave sites.

As far my boss goes, I'll just deal with him as I really do love what I'm doing. I'll just my xanax handy lol
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 50tbrd88 on May 20, 2015, 08:32:20 AM
I hate to hear this, thoughts and prayers your way man.  And don't let a rude boss affect you, because from your posts I can tell you love what you do!  In the end our jobs aren't what's important anyway, family and friends are what matters!
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: Aerocoupe on May 20, 2015, 01:28:05 PM
I had a boss like that once, I finally chalked it up to him having a first and middle names of girls (Lory Lorraine) and just moved on...literally.  Found another job doing what I do and never looked back.  More importantly sorry to hear about your mom.

Darren
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: thunderjet302 on May 20, 2015, 05:38:17 PM
My condolences on the loss of your mother.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: daminc on May 20, 2015, 05:45:01 PM
My condolences
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: MeanLX on May 20, 2015, 07:48:19 PM
My condolences to you and your family.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: bodyman on May 20, 2015, 11:16:48 PM
John, my sympathy to you and your family.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 1BadBird on May 21, 2015, 07:59:54 PM
Once again, Thanks to everyone for the condolences. I was able to fly out a couple of months ago for a few days to visit. Mom was put on hospice full time at that point and I was able to say my goodbys then. I told her that it was ok with me for her to join dad and April (my niece that passed from breast cancer @ 23). That in itself has made her passing a tiny bit easier, a tiny bit.


As far as dealing with Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hyde, I'll deal with him or I will move on. 
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: jcassity on May 21, 2015, 09:14:08 PM
Quote from: 50tbrd88;448187
I hate to hear this, thoughts and prayers your way man.  And don't let a rude boss affect you, because from your posts I can tell you love what you do!  In the end our jobs aren't what's important anyway, family and friends are what matters!


well said and I agree.
Sorry for your loss and keep you chin up
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 1BadBird on May 22, 2015, 06:23:55 PM
Ok, so today I went to get my paycheck. I had close to an hour long talk with my boss. By all appearances, I'm going to be moving on and looking elsewhere for employment. I love what I do but I've had enough of the bi-polar  with the unwillingness to listen to anybody but his supplier.
As far as my mothers' passing goes, I'm doing good.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: Clayton on June 02, 2015, 11:01:10 PM
Sorry to hear that John I feel for ya buddy still dealing with things from when my mom passed away back in July. One day at a time.
Title: Not-so-Perfect ending to an already F'd up morning
Post by: 1BadBird on June 03, 2015, 03:05:11 PM
Thanks Clayton. Hope everything going good for you now.