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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on October 04, 2007, 10:15:02 PM
Im gonna be a daddy again!

8 more months and counting... :D
see last page for details.
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Post by: xr7cat on October 04, 2007, 11:10:18 PM
wow, there must be something in the water around here... lol

Congratulations
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Post by: 86 night cat on October 04, 2007, 11:13:07 PM
congrats!!
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Post by: atariman on October 04, 2007, 11:16:25 PM
Good job bro! How many does that make?
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on October 04, 2007, 11:23:32 PM
Quote from: atariman;180921
Good job bro! How many does that make?


#2

First one with my wife my daughter lives with her mom
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Post by: atariman on October 04, 2007, 11:24:43 PM
well, congratulations!
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Post by: Blackout on October 05, 2007, 04:02:27 AM
heheh


Mine was born on 09-22-2007.  7lbs 12oz and pissed at the world.


Congrats to you man.
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Post by: mercury-man on October 05, 2007, 11:13:20 AM
:cheers: Here's to good news and hope everything goes well with the birth of your child in a few months. :cougarsmily: :cougarsmily:
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Post by: turboranger91 on October 05, 2007, 11:35:35 AM
congratulations, man!
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Post by: Cad-T-Bird 500 on October 05, 2007, 11:37:24 AM
Congrats, and the best of luck to your wife and the new one.  Treat her nice.



Guys spend the first 9 months trying to get out of there and the rest of their lives trying to get back in.

TED
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Post by: ZondaC12 on October 05, 2007, 11:46:01 AM
Been waitin ta be able to say "no news is good news" around here....but this....is defintely good yay news. Something we can all be happy about.
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Post by: thunderjet302 on October 05, 2007, 05:45:38 PM
Congrats :cheers:
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Post by: 88turbo on October 05, 2007, 10:27:55 PM
will be my turn in a few more weeks :D  gonna be a little girl
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Post by: HAVI on October 05, 2007, 10:43:32 PM
congrats
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Post by: 5.0willgo on October 06, 2007, 09:34:39 AM
Congrats!
I'm nowhere being a father any time soon but I'll be an uncle in February.
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Post by: Sluggo on October 06, 2007, 01:36:30 PM
That's great news, congratulations!
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on October 06, 2007, 07:17:36 PM
thanks fella's
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Post by: billboehm on October 07, 2007, 10:16:47 AM
You have to drive her to the hospital in the bird though man. one more great memory for a great car.
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on October 08, 2007, 11:16:18 PM
;)
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 08, 2007, 08:09:30 AM
Little update guys after we had got all excited and had everything planned out it turns out there was  just an ambiotic sack that was growing after her 3rd ultrasound there was no heartbeat and never a baby.


Ive been up since about 4am I am just kinda stressed out and upset don't know what to do she went in this morning at 6 for surgery to remove it as per the doctors recomendation.guess im just having a hard time with it.....
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Post by: tc² on November 08, 2007, 08:26:24 AM
Thats terrible...  My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Post by: bhazard on November 08, 2007, 09:02:22 AM
At least there wasnt an actual baby in the first place that died...
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 08, 2007, 09:08:40 AM
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At least there wasnt an actual baby in the first place that died...



This is true but it is still quite humbling for us.
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Post by: the_intimidator03 on November 08, 2007, 11:39:36 AM
i am sorry to hear that... you can always try again.  ive been thru hell myself as far as having a family.
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Post by: daboss351 on November 08, 2007, 03:14:03 PM
That blows man. Tough break. Hope everything goes well.
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Post by: Jim_Miller on November 08, 2007, 04:00:25 PM
I hope this doesn’t sound heartless, it’s meant to help restore faith, not make light of the situation.
This thought/attitude sometimes help’s me when terrible things happen.
 
“If there wasn’t the negative in our lives, the positive would have less or no meaning.”
 
What I mean by this is when the time does come and you have your child, it will mean Sooo much more to you due to this experience. Like those that go through near death experiences, after words life has so much more meaning, cloud’s are fluffier, the sun shines brighter, and each and every day is a blessing. Where before that, each day was just “oh hum, another day I HAVE to go to work” after a near death experience it’s “right on! Another day I GET to go to work” I base this on reports from three friends of mine that have had the good fortune to have ambulance rides to hospitals paddles to the chest, and lived to enjoy life with a whole new outlook.
So in that way the fact that nobody has actually died and the wife is/will be physically fine (I pray) this can be looked at as a blessing. Probably doesn’t seem like that right now, and for that I’m sorry.
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Post by: Innes on November 09, 2007, 07:13:55 AM
I’m sorry to hear. Godbless you and your wife
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Post by: atariman on November 09, 2007, 08:56:20 AM
At least she is alright.  My sister in law just lost a baby at 4.5 months. Its a terrible thing.
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 09, 2007, 08:29:10 PM
thanks fella's
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Post by: turbot-bird on November 10, 2007, 04:01:56 PM
sorry to hear that
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Post by: Carpimp1987 on November 11, 2007, 03:34:34 AM
I am really sorry to hear that i will pray for your family....try and have a good day man.
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Post by: Blackout on November 11, 2007, 06:42:04 AM
Wow. I'm so sorry man.  I wish there was something else I could say, but... I'm just sorry.  I hope everything works out, and you guys are in my familys and my prayers.
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Post by: 1WLD BRD on November 11, 2007, 09:46:53 AM
Sorry to hear that man, you guys have my condolences.

On a good note, think about it this way....  now instead of buying diapers, you can use that money for race gas... ;)
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on August 22, 2009, 09:36:38 PM
Well it's now 8/22/2009

My baby girl is due on october 28th :)

After this last ordeal we are both relieved.just need some good thoughts from you guys she will have to go into surgery after she is born for a heart defect.Will update as this progresses.We have tried to think the best so far but im a bit overwhelmed at this point came across this old thread in a search and thought I would update

link to the defect
 http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=11074
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Post by: Blackout on August 22, 2009, 09:56:03 PM
Well, the good thing is that pediatric heart surgeries have come a long way in the last 15 years.  Ill pray for you guys.  My son is about to turn 2 next month, and he's going to have to have heart surgery too....he has an atrial septal defect.  I don't know how im going to handle that.... so I know how you feel.
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Post by: Innes on August 23, 2009, 06:27:32 AM
God bless you guys wish you the best, technology pretty good today if they no what wrong and confident they can correct it they probably can. I feel your pain I have 2 kids, I don’t think I could deal with it myself god bless and good luck.
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Post by: 86XR7project on August 23, 2009, 09:27:23 AM
You are in my family's prayers. I will ask my dad to put you in the prayer chain at his church.
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Post by: Katmaglia on August 23, 2009, 01:35:54 PM
That's very hard news to wrap your head around once you start planning for the future. I'm so sorry.
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Post by: Haystack on August 23, 2009, 07:10:51 PM
Good luck. Let us know how it goes.
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on October 21, 2009, 04:31:26 PM
Quote from: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87;287789
Well it's now 8/22/2009

My baby girl is due on october 28th :)

After this last ordeal we are both relieved.just need some good thoughts from you guys she will have to go into surgery after she is born for a heart defect.Will update as this progresses.We have tried to think the best so far but im a bit overwhelmed at this point came across this old thread in a search and thought I would update

link to the defect
 http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=11074



We are fixing to head to vanderbuilt for the induction.After all this waiting we will finally see our baby girl :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D ill update from my phone
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Post by: DVP on October 21, 2009, 04:47:13 PM
Congrats!
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Post by: 88turbo on October 21, 2009, 07:29:42 PM
hope everything goes well :D  will be thinking about you guys
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on October 23, 2009, 11:28:17 PM
Thoughts and prayers go out to both you and Blackout! Hope everything goes well for both of your families!!
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Post by: ProTouring442 on October 24, 2009, 07:54:55 AM
In our thoughts and prayers...

Bill & Kristy
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Post by: 88turbo on October 24, 2009, 11:05:21 AM
is everything ok?  the suspense is killing me hope all is well and the baby is healthy.
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Post by: Dougy_Fresh on October 25, 2009, 12:40:28 PM
you got my prayers. everything go ok?
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 01, 2009, 11:12:03 PM
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hope everything goes well :D  will be thinking about you guys


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Thoughts and prayers go out to both you and Blackout! Hope everything goes well for both of your families!!


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In our thoughts and prayers...

Bill & Kristy


Quote from: 88turbo;296189
is everything ok?  the suspense is killing me hope all is well and the baby is healthy.


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you got my prayers. everything go ok?

thanks guys My lack of mobile phone internet usage showed me i cant post here from it. I came home tonight to check on a few things and so i could update this thread,


10/22
Tonight at 7.49 cst shelby grace grimes was born.7 lbs 8 oz . 19 in long . We are at vanderbuilt due to a heart defect she is stable now in the nicu. Im having to type from my cell. Please keep us in your thoughts.



10/23
We talked to the cardioligest this morning.waiting to meet with surgeon.even with a little rest im still beat.this is the biggest hospital ive ever seen. Staff seems great.

10/24
Thanks guys we appreciate the kind words and thoughts.still waiting to meet with the surgeon but shelby is doing well tonight and off some of the medication they put her last night.i will keep updating as we learn more. please keep her in your thoughts and prayers
they set the date for wensday for surgery. Hope i can get to a real pc so i can get off my phone and give a real deataled update

10/27
they decided on a surgery @ 7am tommorow going to put a band on a main arterie to restrict blood flow to the lungs. S0 please keep her in your thoughts and prayers

10/28
waiting in the OR waiting room (early)
(later)
 She is out of surgery now seems to be ok.im so overwhelmed seeing all these tubes now

10/29
Little update looks like she is doing better they are keeping her pretty sedated. Ill be glad when they start taking some of these tubes out.

She is off the venalator now.

Ive got alot of pics.she is doing well as of tonight they took a few more tubes out hope we get to go home soon.


10/30
Every thing is now out except the iv,they moved us out of the picu into a regular room. Hopefully it wont be long now she has done great today so far!


TODAY
Well I had to come back home for a little while to check on things.feed the animals etc. Feels good to be home even though i know it is temporary and i will have to back to nashville.

Little shelby is doing fine right now,she got a little dehydrated last night and her blood pressure dropped some but it is back up and stabilized now.Doctors said if all keeps going well she could be home anywere from wensday to next week.I left my camera with my wife but ill post some pics up when we get home



This is everything i sent from my phone so you guys can finally see it .
__________________
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 01, 2009, 11:38:40 PM
Thanks for the update. Sounds like you guys have been put through the ringer. I'm glad she's doing better, that's always a relief! You'll defenately be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: Beau on November 02, 2009, 03:20:04 AM
I couldn't imagine what it must be like to go through this. You and your family are in mine and Nicole's thoughts. :bowdown:
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Post by: LittleAngel1198 on November 02, 2009, 07:37:24 AM
So glad she's doing well.

The things they can do for babies and little kids is just amazing... my niece had open heart surgery when she was 2 years old (she had an artery that wasn't big enough so they had to enlarge it) and less than a month after surgery, she was strutting down the isle for my (first) wedding.... that was 19 years ago.

Take care...you and your wife need a lot of rest.... before you know it, Shelby will be home then running around before you know it!
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Post by: Innes on November 02, 2009, 09:43:24 AM
Thank god she is on the up and up. Hope everything goes well from here. God bless. And Shelby is a beautiful name.
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Post by: 88turbo on November 02, 2009, 11:16:52 AM
glad to hear everything is going well :)  little girl sounds strong already.  and Shelby is a very pretty name did it come from the car gods??  lol
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Post by: crystal on November 02, 2009, 05:57:59 PM
Glad to hear everything is looking up. I'm sure you all can't wait to get home. Definately sounds like you have a fighter on your hands!
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Post by: mcford on November 02, 2009, 06:34:49 PM
congrats to you and the wife and god bless, man!  we'll keep y'all in our thoughts and prayers.  i agree with crystal, ya got a fighter there!
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 13, 2009, 08:30:10 PM
pics
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 13, 2009, 08:44:18 PM
Aww! She's a cutie!! How's she doing now?
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 13, 2009, 08:59:33 PM
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Aww! She's a cutie!! How's she doing now?


She seems to be doing good they released her this morning. still got the feeding tube for now ubtill she pics her feeds up.
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Post by: 88turbo on November 13, 2009, 09:09:10 PM
She's adorable bud, before you know it she's gonna be running around and wanting to go bye bye
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 13, 2009, 09:11:56 PM
That good to hear. I'm sure you guys are happy to have her home. I'm happy for yinz.
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Post by: Beau on November 14, 2009, 01:59:04 AM
Awww....hopefully all the medical stuff she's going through right now will soon be in the past..

Congrats again man! :D
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Post by: ProTouring442 on November 14, 2009, 07:53:38 AM
WooHoo! Thank God she is doing well.... She'll be wrecking the family car before you know it!

Shiny Side Up!
Bill
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 15, 2009, 02:36:06 AM
Well she is back in the hospital now the incision is bad infected got her on IV antibiotics now  looks like its going to be another 3-4 days in if they dont decide to send her back to vanderbuilt.
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Post by: Beau on November 15, 2009, 03:35:20 AM
 dude, that blows...:sorry:
We're keeping that cute little girl of yours..and the rest of you guys...in our thoughts. :bowdown:
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 15, 2009, 08:17:19 AM
Sorry to see that, We where really excited for you that she was finally home. Hopefully it won't get any worse and she'll get to come home again in no time.
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 15, 2009, 09:41:25 AM
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Well she is back in the hospital now the incision is bad infected got her on IV antibiotics now  looks like its going to be another 3-4 days in if they dont decide to send her back to vanderbuilt.


Today they decided to send her back to vanderbuilt..I just cant take anymore of this
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 15, 2009, 11:09:27 AM
Just keep positive. They're doing what they think is best for her. The other hospital is probably better equipped to take care of her needs. It'll all pay off in the long run.
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Post by: SLEEPER T-BIRD 87 on November 18, 2009, 05:56:13 PM
and back home again... hope for a while this time
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Post by: mcford on November 18, 2009, 06:02:56 PM
excellent news!
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 18, 2009, 06:14:24 PM
That great news!! Glad to hear it!!
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Post by: 1Bad88tbird on November 27, 2009, 11:16:12 PM
How about an update? How's that little one doing? I pray she's well!
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Post by: ProTouring442 on November 28, 2009, 08:33:31 AM
Still in our thoughts and prayers... glad to see she is back home!

Bill & Kristy
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Post by: BlackCardinal on December 01, 2009, 01:57:20 PM
+1 You guys have been on my mind and in my prayers. I hope all is going well!