I will be swaping my 88 302 SO T-bird motor with a 88 302 HO Mustang motor. I know I need another ECU for the different firing order but can I use my existing wiring harness and O2 sensors.
Yep everything is identicle just plug and play!
Yes you can use your T-bird harness without any changes since both motors you will be working with are speed density.
Check this page out for lots more info on the swap:
http://www.coolcats.net/tech/advanced/ho_swap.html
How about the MAP sensor?
non issue...plug and play
unless you meant MAF
then you need a 89 up 5.0 HO stang computer, MAF sensor and some wireing from what i understand.