Last night, a friend of mine was killed instantly in a car accident, after her friends car spun out of control into a pole. She was only 16 years old, and a junior and high school. Its things like this that make me value my life so much............ Its just not fair that a beautiful young girl like her, could just be killed.....
That sucks....I feel for you. I have a friend who was tossed out the sunroof of his own car that his friend was driving. He's the nicest guy in the world and now....will probably never walk again. I'm friends also with his brother and he took it pretty hard. I almost lost 2 friends that night...one to the accident and one by his own hands.
I feel for ya man, I've been in the same place you are at now. Had a friend from childhood that got killed in a car accident in '04. And he was just being the designated driver for a couple friends, car full of drunk kids came over the top of a hill in his lane, and had nowhere to go. The best thing I was told about how to look at it is to not think of the bad thing that they passed, but to instead remember the good times you had with them. Sorry to hear about it though, that just sucks when someone is taken so young like that.
condolences.
thanks guys it means a lot, she didn't deserve to die like that. Itshiznit a lot of people really hard. The driver from what ive heard was her boyfriend, and hes a mess emotional, but fine other wise. He wasn't drunk, and from what ive heard driving the speed limit, just lost control.
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I feel for you too bud, I've had more than my share of friends/family killed in car accidents, its a hard thing to get through but like what vemon_cat said dont think about how they passed just remember the good memories that you had with them and stick to your friends for support. this is a good place for support, everyone here gave me so much support when my uncle passed. and I thank every one of them. hang in there bud
thanks man, what sucks is i didn't really know her that well, but its on of those things where you don't tell the person your feelings, and then something happens keeping you from ever being able to express them.
I'm sorry bro,. I just lost 2 freinds in 2 mounths. Trisha ( ex GF and my co-worker) and my very good freind ( almost my father if you will) steve. Trisha was killin when she hit ice in her Lincoln Town Car and went head on into a pole at 50. Steve was on a snowmobel? and hit something. I know how ya feel.
Went to her mass tonight, never seen so many people i knew crying at once. I was so happy to be done with drivers ed 1 step closer to driving, and now i don't know what its gonna be like getting behind the wheel. And i may never drink again. She was killed because the driver was drunk, at least thats what i heard. School is gonna suck tomorrow. 16 is to young man, she was going places, she was a straight a student, was into alot of sports, but she had her share of partying. I still can't believe shes gone forever....... Sorry i needed somewhere to vent at the moment.
Things like this makes me think why i cant drive fast, drunk, or recklessly....
It doesnt matter if got killed alone in a car accident....it matters for the people who loves/cares about you. They got destroyed with the loss of their loved ones, so every time im going to drive a car with people, i think how much their families want them in their houses back, so that stops almost every stupid thing i planned to do....
Obviosly this doesnt apply when someone stupid is in the wheel of the other car.
Every time mom says "be good and drive carefully" i reply "I`m going with God. If i cant return, its because i stayed with him...."
Sorry for your loss man, be strong...
thanks alot guys i haven't been able to sleep all night and ive been crying for the last half a hour. i relaly aprecaite it guys.
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thats her and her best friend, why did it have to happen to her................
Sorry to hear that man. It hurts to lose a friend.
well its official, they buried her today..... I saw her last night at the wake, they tryed hard, but she didn't look like herself, you could see all the imperfections on her face, but i was glad to see her one last time. The funeral was just beautiful, but it was pouring rain so it made everyone even sadder. I just wanna say thanks to everyone on here for there support, and giving me a way to escape and get my mind onto other things.
Hello!,
I'm so retarder in condolences, but I'm here, sorry for Your Girlfriend (or friend girl).
But the show must go on, we die at our time, not before, I lost a couple of friends when I was teenager, most are tragically (accidents, ect), and I gaved some lessons of that, one is KEEPING ME ALIVE.
I still have this in My mind, for that reason I keeped My 3.8 V6 in My Bird, but it so fast to kill Me.
Since I stepped 30years or over a bit, I lost a lot of friends, since 10years I losted around 25-35 friends (girls and guy's), some from a health prob's and others killed in an accidents (not necessery in a cars), one touched Me rough is Normand, it was a nice guy, he FINALLY purchased his Harley Davidson (at 48)he's always wanted, and finally suicided for a trouble of $$$ at 52, what a lost for nothing...
But in the summer I go at the cemetary 6-7 times with My camera, and click some good pics, and walk around the entire cemetary (at the thumbstones back, NEVER over the body by respect), and see My friends, and have a souvenirs from us....
But as I stated, THE SHOW MUST GO ON!!!!, he died, but I'm not die (not My time), and continue My life, but I keep in My mind for the rest of My life the people died before Me, like My father (1988) and lot of Friends...
Have a nice Day, and TAKE CARE,
Dom,.
she was a just a friend, and its jsut hard for everyone, cause no one hated her, she was everyones friend, and didn't deserve to die. But I know i have to go on, and i will forever carry her in my heart. and i always have her younger sister, who is 15 who looks almost identical to her to remind me, and i can be there for her sister.
K when I writed GIRLFRIEND I wanted to say a Girl Friend, like a boy friend, thats all, I just mispelled (My English is so bad a bit).
Are You see, all the people die too Young, or whatever, heve NEVER any hate person in closer around, it's a "normal" for all tragically deceased person.
One thing I noticed, some persons have an accident, never die in that, like a drug dealer, or whatever, and good people die for nothing, for Me it's abnormal...
In this way it's an injustice I'll not died at born :hick: .
(why I say that???).
Regards,
Dom.
i totally agree i know people that drive around drunk all the time this never happens. The one time she gets in a car with someone thats drunk, shes killed, she never deserved it its not suppose to happen like that. I miss her so bad right now, i can't stand it......
bringing this one back from the dead, today is one year.......
Dont drink and drive... dont let anyone you know drink and drive... Its not worth the risks.
X 1billion
Lost all but 2 of my friends to drunk drivers
1 on his honeymoon
thats why i brought this back, in memory of her, and to remind people how if can happen to anyone..
Yea man good idea we all need reminders of this stuff. As you said AINT WORTH IT.